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Post by iane on Apr 16, 2013 19:32:25 GMT 1
Hi guys!
Todays "Tricycle daily dharma" got me thinking. This is what was sent out:
Buddhism often appears to promote personal transformation at the expense of social concern. Some Buddhist teachings claim that the mind does not just affect the world, it actually creates and sustains it. According to this view, cosmic harmony is most effectively preserved through an individual's spiritual practice. Yet other Buddhists amend the notion that mind is the primary or exclusive source of peace, contending that inner serenity is fostered or impeded by external conditions. Buddhists who place importance upon social factors and social action believe that internal transformation cannot, by itself, quell the world's turbulence. - Kenneth Kraft, “Meditation in Action”.
This also touches my issue with "belief vs. reasoning" a bit. I like the notion in Buddhism that you do not need to believe, but that you can reason and come to the conclusion yourself.
I do believe that my thoughts create my very own "reality", and that everyone else does the same for themselves. But I honestly cannot reason why an hour of sitting meditation would reap 1000 times the merit of one hour of, let's say, volunteering at a nursing home. The 1000 is a random number and not a quote I got from some guru, but I am sure statements like this have been made. The idea that what I do with my mind eventually effects other sentient beings seems just so indirect and distant - how can one make the argument that this is more effective than actually taking action? How could I possibly verify this? I can't help but feel that this is just an excuse for not taking any action against injustice in the world.
I see that activism creates unrest in your mind, and that a lot of protests are fuelled by hatred and duality, but I think that is besides the point - if that was the problem in taking action, then these issues should be adressed, and not the general idea of taking actions.
I'd really love to hear what you guys have to say about that.
iane
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Post by matt on Apr 16, 2013 20:06:38 GMT 1
I believe both are true. My Guru has said that some people do not need to meditate, that they can realize themselves as Bodhisatvas through positive action. Recently His Holiness the Dalai Lama has encouraged positive action, volunteering and protest when appropriate, as well. I also believe meditation is beneficial and in rare individuals can have a profound and seemingly illogical, but positive effect on the world, because as you say, we sustain and create the world we live in through endless mental, speech and active habits. One can rationalize not acting or volunteering, but one can rationalize not meditating as well. Do you believe you do this? Most of us do both IMO. I think meditating, and studying and practicing Buddhism can make socially concerned people more effective. For example, if someone yells at you, angrily demanding change, they are usually less effective than someone who argues for change in a sympathetic and compassionate, non-judgemental fashion. The latter is more skillful. In fact I think too often when confronted by difficult, interdependent issues we cop out by projecting our own negativity onto others, and get angry out of self righteousness or frustration and a sense of helplessness. So that is not compassionate, because if we trully cared about the issue, we would make every effort, including mind training, to address it in the most skillful way we can. So as with so many things, not an either-or answer, but a middle ground to look for and cultivate seems the best to me .
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Post by Rudy on Apr 17, 2013 17:41:48 GMT 1
Very valid question iane. The internal vs. external development argument probably has quite a few sides to it. For example, in terms of our own karma, it is obviously good to do a good action, but if it does not come with a change of mind, the result will just be one single positive result of a happy experience. But when we manage to change our mind so that we can change a bad habit into a positive one, in the long run, this would cause us to do many positive actions, not just one. Whatever good we do in the world (samsara), it will still remain samsara, and that always comes with problems and suffering. Even if we manage to avoid one problem or disaster, the next one to come is just a matter of time. That way, almost everything we do within samsara is a bit like carrying water to the sea. If instead we progress towards enlightenment (of ourselves and others), we work on a definite ending of suffering - that's a very different scale of things. It is easy to overlook that unless we make an effort to escape from samsara alltoghether, it will last for ever and ever, and we always end up with problems. If we manage to become a Buddha, we will not only be completely free of suffering, but we have the chance to teach others to make a definite end to suffering - that's incomparable to making someone happy for a few minutes or days. Still, the above does not mean that we should all simply drop everything for meditation! Ironically, even to have success in our meditation, we need a basis of good karma. Such a positive basis is often best laid by helping others, whether that is by helping a neighbour with shopping or social activism. So I think that the advice a teacher gives to a student in such matters very much depends on who, where and what the student is, and not necessarily what is 'best' in any absolute terms. Maybe this is similar to the point often mentioned by Tibetan teachers that we need both method and wisdom: if we know a good method, but we lack the wisdom of how to use it, our actions will probably not be very succesful. If we have wisdom, but we lack a method to help others or ourselves, we are also stuck. Similarly, we need good karma (doing positive actions in the world) as well as develop wisdom at the same time. Just about everyone easily understands the positive results of positive actions, but we usually overlook that without proper wisdom, our actions remain very limited at best, or they can even turn into problems themselves; something we can often observe in international politics...
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Post by brian on Apr 18, 2013 3:59:05 GMT 1
Hello.
I was really impressed with matt's response. I thought that was quite pithy. I'd say that I agree with it 100%.
I think meditation would only strenthen social activism, not diminish it. It is all just a matter of timing. Meditate on the go!
I want to personally get involved with social activism, specifically gun control and anti-violence (which is ironic because I guess I have "violent" views") but I am reluctant. I can do anything but I am a dumbed down, brainwashed American. I have everything that I need but nothing I want. I guess it is like pouring water into the sea as Rudy and the Boodhaas say...which is always the pessimistic way I felt about activism unless you're extremely famous and wealthy.....and even then. But at least I won't feel like a complete waste.
I feel like i'm losing my mind somedays and becoming too disconnected. It has nothing to do with the external, it is all internal. Probably a psychosysis of depressive manic disorder. But there are many drugs prescribed for that.
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Post by jeff on Apr 20, 2013 13:34:40 GMT 1
The idea that what I do with my mind eventually effects other sentient beings seems just so indirect and distant - how can one make the argument that this is more effective than actually taking action? How could I possibly verify this? I can't help but feel that this is just an excuse for not taking any action against injustice in the world.iane I completely understand what you are saying. It's very hard to think that a monk sitting in a cave somewhere is gaining more merit (creating more positive karma) than an activist working every day for others. I believe the reason lies in the intention of the meditator, which is to become enlightened as quickly as possible for the sake of all beings. The Lamrim teachings say: "Just as a bird with undeveloped wings cannot fly in the sky those without "higher perception" cannot work for the good of living beings." "The merit gained in a single day by one who has higher perception cannot be gained in even a hundred lifetimes by one who does not possess higher perception." The Lamrim goes on to explain that higher perception is achieved by developing "calm abiding" through meditation. So the main idea is that an enlightened being can help sentient beings by guiding them toward an end to all suffering whereas an activist can only help by relieving certain current conditions which are very short-term. Of course, in order to believe this you must at least consider the possibility of becoming enlightened and having higher perception. You must also believe that the path to higher perception is quicker through meditation than through "good deeds". As with many Buddhist teachings you need to use reason to gain confidence in them and then practice them to gain experience and conviction. However, I bow down, as I'm sure you do, to all those working for the good of others.
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Post by iane on Apr 26, 2013 18:52:25 GMT 1
Hi guys, sorry I didn't reply earlier. Thanks a lot for your contributions! I guess bottom line for me is, that meditation or action, done with the right intention, both reaps the same merit, but it is easier to actually have the right intention during volunteering etc. when you have trained your mind through meditation first? One can rationalize not acting or volunteering, but one can rationalize not meditating as well. Do you believe you do this? Most of us do both IMO. Touché, Matt . I actually would like to volunteer, but I work full time, do some yoga, and then there is not much time left. So what to do? Meditate or volunteer? Unfortunately, a lot of time I answer this question by doing neither. I am just surprised that Buddhism never used its power to establish organizations similar to the red cross or half moon. Sure believers sort of volunteer by maintaining temples or organizing events at the temple, some may add a school... but it is a lot less so than with christian church. I assume that you are also held to do good deeds without identifying yourself as buddhist in order to avoid the negative connotation of proselytizing? Sure some NGOs that work in relief or development initially used their helping power in that respect... but they also do some good, don't they? Couldn't Buddhism do something similar? iane
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Post by matt on Apr 26, 2013 20:15:25 GMT 1
That is an often heard and valid criticism of Buddhism. Apparently a belief in karma and rebirth has made Buddhist and Hindu (reincarnation) societies a little complacent that way. This is thought to be due to a misunderstanding of karma by the best known Buddhist teachers, though. I believe that meditation and other Buddhist practice helps the world. The reasons are many and some are complicated, and they increase with time and experience, but they are very valid to me. Volunteering is very helpful to the people and causes that need it, and the volunteer may get the most benefit from it. If you really have very little time and have to pick one, I would advise practice, because that will help order your life in a positive way and may eventually result in positive action.
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Post by Rudy on Apr 26, 2013 22:48:02 GMT 1
I am just surprised that Buddhism never used its power to establish organizations similar to the red cross or half moon. Sure believers sort of volunteer by maintaining temples or organizing events at the temple, some may add a school... but it is a lot less so than with christian church.
That question is a bit like, 'could the sun not shine in another color?' Buddhism is some 2,500 years old, and it does not have the prosetilyzing urge like Christianity or Islam. I think when you look at the origin of many of these religious organizations you may find quite a bit of wanting to convert people. That is not to say that the people do not have very good intentions when helping others of course. But as I tried to explain, from the Buddhist viewpoint, helping others is extremely good, but if it is done without the necessary wisdom that comes from developing our mind, the help is at best very limited. Just look at how we often 'help' poor countries during famines, floods or whatever disasters. Yes, we can send lots of money with the best of intentions, but when we look at how little money or food ends up with the people who need it, it's easy to get very frustrated... Sending food to poor countries tends to totally destroy their own agriculture (who will grow rice while free rice is handed out?). Look at the millions that went to people hit by the tsunami or recent earthquakes - yes, some got a tent and some food, but most never got the new housing etc. that should have been built from the aid money; some people got very rich though... So please understand me right, we can chose to help people by handing them an aspirine against the pain, but we can also chose to study and become a doctor, and for quite a number of years a medical student does not appear to help anyone much. I think that meditating and studying to become a medical doctor is in many ways similar. By the way, I do not really think your idea of meditation OR volunteering is really a valid argument. Volunteering needs hours or days. Meditation just requires 10 minutes per day, and it can even be done while you are under the shower, wait for the bus, or when you do simple work such as chopping vegetables. So I do not think that the either/or question is quite realistic. I even managed to save time when I started meditating regularly; I used to have problems getting to sleep at night, but when I began to meditate for perhaps some 10 minutes a day, I could catch sleep much quicker, like half an hour or so!
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Post by ed on Apr 27, 2013 4:27:46 GMT 1
I try to leave a higher-than-expected tip to food service people; as that they are not making minimum wage and also to service people who normally don't see a tip at all. (Employees who clean showers in truck-stops, for example.) Knowing that these actions "make their day" helps me to feel that I am doing something until the more occasional "bigger action" may come along. For example, truckers are often first responders at urgent scenes. (One fellow has delivered 3 babies roadside in his 20 year career...no I'm not kidding!) These "bigger action" things just plop in your lap; a driver isn't looking for it. So, perhaps it is meditation that, in part, gives me "presence of mind" and calmness that when first upon an urgent scene on the roadway, I have a meditative awareness to respond quickly and appropriately. ("Soul Sword" is a good book on that theme.) Then giving unexpected tips to shower-cleaners keeps the desire to help, in tone, keeps my mind alert to any possibility to help..."large" or "small".
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Post by Mandala on Apr 28, 2013 15:00:27 GMT 1
I see that activism creates unrest in your mind, and that a lot of protests are fuelled by hatred and duality, but I think that is besides the point... This reminds me of an old conversation where you mentioned believing that compassion meant suffering. We talked then about the difference between compassion and pity, etc. There were other more recent conversations about the differences between compassion and neurotic compassion, ... one of them traveling on the stress pathway and resonating with stress, and the other not.
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Post by brian on Apr 28, 2013 23:28:13 GMT 1
Meditation in action is Compassion and Wisdom in action. I guess the only way to do this is too be truly selfless and giving of your time and attention. I know that I want to be of service to others, help them, make them happy, and care about them...but I find myself restrained and retarded by my own body and mind. I am my own worst enemy (or my ego is).
I need to let go so much, so far...that it almost makes me cry. Letting go...of every thought, every memory, every vestige of identification...every label, every judgement, every desire, every plan for the future, every resource in my hand. I am too scared to let go of all this because I'm afraid of......what??? Afraid of dying? Even a thoughtless wild animal knows enough when to eat and sleep to survive.
I think a HUGE idea that keeps people reluctant to "let go" and become enlightened is this mentality of scarcity in the world. They are afraid their needs won't get met..whether they are medical needs, nutritional, hygeine or otherwise. And I guess in some places in the world that is the case such as in India unfortunately. But for people who live in America or some other abundant country were we live relatively more secure and comfortable lives, this notion of scarcity is a complete myth propagandized by corporate media. Forrest Gump could run across the country back and forth and his physical needs were apparently met as a lonely traveler.
I just think we are afraid of becoming that bum or vagrant on the street if we truly let go. At least that is how I feel. If I totally "let go", I might stop working for money, forget to brush my teeth, not bother cleaning up after myself or changing my clothes. That is why I hold back. I'll be like a begging buddhist monk but with less to give. I don't really want to take that selfless route to be honest.
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Post by Rudy on Apr 29, 2013 17:29:02 GMT 1
Hi Brian, Perhaps it is better not to focus too much on emptiness and letting the ego go; simply because it is basically a pretty advanced practice. If not done right, it can easily lead to depression and a constant feeling of 'having to drop everything'. But I don't think that's really what it is about. I think that realizing emptiness and achieving liberation is a realization by which we finally understand that holding on to everything is the real cause of suffering. By seeing that directly, it is like dropping a hot coal: of course we drop it as quick as we can, otherwise we'll burn our hands terribly. In the beginning of the path, we need to gather much merit, simply by trying to help others, trying to be less of a pain in the butt for others etc. - believe me, that's tough enough in the beginning for most of us. Then try to study, go to teachings, meditate etc. and gradually (but usually very slowly) some things begin to change. Letting go in the way you describe it, sounds quite non-sensical because it lacks exactly this long preparation in terms of study and meditation. Perhaps just being in the 'here and now' is hard enough for the moment...
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Post by brian on Apr 29, 2013 19:12:56 GMT 1
Thx Rudy. I think I equated "letting go" with letting go of all responsibilites. In a sense I percieved letting go as not caring about anything anymore. Perhaps this is a misunderstanding. When people say "he/she really let themselves go" they usually mean that they stopped taking care of themselves (they gained alot of weight, lost teeth, they're dirty and run down)
There seems to be such a fine line between self cherishing and nurturing one's self. The Middle Way seriously comes into play with this spiritual aspect of life. There is narcissism and vanity on one side of the mirror and sloth and neglect on the other. The Middle Way is fulfilling your own personal needs and helping others fulfill theirs.
I think that I always had in mind that a monk or saint had to be destitute and impoverished to be "acceptable in the eyes of God". Forsaking wealth and choosing poverty as a way of life. But this is also another facet where Buddha's Middle Way is so important to realize. We don't have to be homeless beggars to become enlightened. Or do we? Is money and the luxuries of life always going to keep us imprisoned within the palace walls? What if Siddhartha never left his wife and child? Would we still call him The Awakened One? Probably not.
Perhaps I need to leave my modern "luxuries" and venture out into the world as a faithful servant. No car, no cell phone, little money, little possessions. Only relying upon the earth and karma. Maybe this is the only way to liberation for me. This will teach me to be grateful and selfless. This will humble my ego and force me to use the buddhadharma as strength. I might take this radical approach in some way very soon.
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Post by matt on Apr 29, 2013 20:43:31 GMT 1
Thx Rudy. I think I equated "letting go" with letting go of all responsibilites. In a sense I percieved letting go as not caring about anything anymore. Perhaps this is a misunderstanding. When people say "he/she really let themselves go" they usually mean that they stopped taking care of themselves (they gained alot of weight, lost teeth, they're dirty and run down) There seems to be such a fine line between self cherishing and nurturing one's self. The Middle Way seriously comes into play with this spiritual aspect of life. There is narcissism and vanity on one side of the mirror and sloth and neglect on the other. The Middle Way is fulfilling your own personal needs and helping others fulfill theirs. I think that I always had in mind that a monk or saint had to be destitute and impoverished to be "acceptable in the eyes of God". Forsaking wealth and choosing poverty as a way of life. But this is also another facet where Buddha's Middle Way is so important to realize. We don't have to be homeless beggars to become enlightened. Or do we? Is money and the luxuries of life always going to keep us imprisoned within the palace walls? What if Siddhartha never left his wife and child? Would we still call him The Awakened One? Probably not. Perhaps I need to leave my modern "luxuries" and venture out into the world as a faithful servant. No car, no cell phone, little money, little possessions. Only relying upon the earth and karma. Maybe this is the only way to liberation for me. This will teach me to be grateful and selfless. This will humble my ego and force me to use the buddhadharma as strength. I might take this radical approach in some way very soon. Letting go refers to attachment. It does not mean giving up on life. Giving or throwing away all your belongings and living on the street is not going to make you any wiser, so it won't solve your problems. It always seems to me addiction to alcohol and other things is at the root of a lot of your troubles, Brian. You probably need some help to let go of those.
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Post by Rudy on Apr 30, 2013 8:47:14 GMT 1
Yes, very true to both of you. Another way of saying 'letting go of the ego' is to say that we need to let go of our obsession of putting ourselves as number one ALL the time. The tendency to think ME FIRST much of the time, as soon as something happens, we tend to think WHAT ABOUT ME?. This constant obsession with our own welfare at the exclusion of others is the real problem. It is allk too easy to not be bothered with thousands of people suffering from wars, natural disasters, hunger or illness. But as soon as I don't get my chocolate or feel the slightest discomfort, I put the entire universe second to my own tiny problem - that is obviously completely mad when you think of it. Still, we all tend to do just that. Taking care of ourselves and trying to find some happiness, free from suffering is probably the most basic human right we have, but considering myself to be more important then the rest of the universe, is clearly madness. So I need to work on becoming a bit more realistic about the situation. It is undeniably hard to break a habit that I seem to have had since beginningless times. Yet, I have no other option to find real happiness free from suffering. So it is all my own choice: do I want to keep fighting for little scraps of comfort or do I want to go for the jackpot? Weird enough, it is possible to feel good about helping others instead of ourselves as well. This is a source of happiness that many people discover when they have children, work in healthcare or follow the impulse to just help someone in trouble. It gives a mental satisfaction that is much deeper then chocolate or alcohol, and comes without a hangover. So in that way, we can get encouraged to do a little more for others. It does not mean we need to give up our own happiness; on the contrary, helping others is a very good way to feel good about ourselves, whereas only helping ourselves makes us lonely and miserable however money, food or whatever we have gathered..
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Post by brian on May 1, 2013 6:32:32 GMT 1
Thx Rudy and matt. It's all wisdom that I know is true. Will I subject myself to it? Will I pursue true enlightenment? Will I find enlightenment in a sober state of mind? Or Will I look for for temporary placebos? I need........................nothing, but...... the mystery of .....Buddha triumphing over the evil Gods of now. (Like Allah) Everybodie's now.
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Post by brian on May 3, 2013 2:59:43 GMT 1
Ok my last reply was a little wierd. I still seem to have this "worldly battle" mentality of the Buddha-warrior destroying all the other "false" religions of the world. I know this isn't helpful for me and my practice, but it's like a piercing thorn in my side that seems to get my attention whenever I watch the news or read about social events.
The flexibility of buddhism is what makes it so beautiful and effective for societal understanding. Nobody gets stuck on political parties or some dogma when they are in tune with the Dharma. Buddha's medicine could cure the world of such grotesque diseases as corporate greed and Islamic terrorism.
It just seems that Buddha doesn't get the respect he deserves. I know HE doesn't care about that, but I do. It seems that poor, pitiful Jesus with his long, blond hair and blue (caucasian?) eyes gets all the attention and praise and glory while having only a small fraction of the Buddha's great wisdom.
I just want to see an enlightened Buddhist future, not more of the suffering Christian one or "God forbid" an oppressive Muslim one. Buddhism is progressive, futuristic. Abrahamic religions are backward and degenerative. It just is what it is, not merely my own petty opinion, but factually evident through history, science and human psychology.
Peace. Don't mean to offend anyone, but we need to be real about what's going on in the world. Buddha makes the world a better place...have any of the other religions really achieved this?
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Post by Mandala on May 3, 2013 15:09:35 GMT 1
...but it's like a piercing thorn in my side... Excerpt: "...the first step is to develop compassion for our own wounds. It is unconditional compassion for ourselves that leads naturally to unconditional compassion for others. If we are willing to stand fully in our own shoes and never give up on ourselves, then we will be able to put ourselves in the shoes of others and never give up on them. True compassion does not come from wanting to help out those less fortunate than ourselves but from realizing our kinship with all beings." www.shambhalasun.com/index.php?option=content&task=view&id=1562
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Post by Rudy on May 3, 2013 15:35:10 GMT 1
Hi Brian, I think your contradictions are a bit extreme in the last posts: Will I subject myself to it? Will I pursue true enlightenment? Will I find enlightenment in a sober state of mind? and It just seems that Buddha doesn't get the respect he deserves. So you mean that other people should respect the Buddha's advice, but you can disregard it and go the opposite way? Really respecting the Buddha means to try and follow his example and teachings, and that is most certainly not getting drunk and letting our aggression out to people who believe in something different then we....
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Post by brian on May 5, 2013 7:14:32 GMT 1
True compassion does not come from wanting to help out those less fortunate than ourselves but from realizing our kinship with all beings.Great quote Mandala. It's funny how this really filled a gap in a very particular thought I had today while on the road. I thought how I really didn't care about helping poor people. It wasn't my job to do so. But compassion as a kinship and connection with all beings is a profound state of thought. It's not pity, or a hand out, or welfare, or sentimentality. It's seeing them as children of...I want to say God, but I think there is a much better word than that, more distinct, more earthly, more real... Children of ____________ This could be a fun fill in the blank What would you say? (The Sun, Light, Universe, other parents lol) Addressing Rudy, I don't want you to think I am attacking or belittlling people of different faiths. People are children of the monkey. But I AM attacking the systems! I would likewise attack Scientology as a money scam. I will attack Islam as a framework for terrorism and oppression of women. I will criticize Christianity's corruption and hypocrisies. WHY? Because these are root causes of much global suffering. I am looking at the earth as the Self. I am one with the earth and it's jungles, and caverns, and mountains, and rivers, and seas, and plains, and forests, and rolling hills. Spreading the dharma like a zealous Christian would be advisable for a salvagable future for mankind. Like Nietzche said, "God is dead". Its GOOD that God is dead b/c he was a MONSTROUS OBSTACLE for hundreds of years anyways! Buddha saw the man-made concept of God as irrelevant. I take this notion one evolutionary step further and say that the God concept is inherently detrimental and harmful for society. If I could ever, anywhere, by anybody be proven otherwise...I would then bow down on my knees and pray to this invisible, jealous God. Until then, I'll try and follow Buddha's sensible directions.
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